The sad reality in many of these debate situations is that the participants are not there to listen to alternate perspectives that could open them up to a better understanding of reality, but just to be heard and feel an ego validating sense of righteousness from having said their piece publicly. In a different context, this explains much of the virtue signalling that we see from politicians, activists and heads of corporations who feel the pressure from their constituents to take a particular ideological line about some contentious issue. But this again is performative, because their message will be crafted to not genuinely reflect what they believe about what they are saying, but to avoid condemnation or elicit the support of their base that their power (and continued ability to have a platform) is dependent on.
Don’t strawman, but steelman, your opponent’s arguments – To clarify at the outset what these two terms mean, when a person strawman’s another person’s argument, what they are doing is reducing it to the lowest common denominator of its meaning, playing to tropes of the counter position, deflecting the substance of the argument, or tearing out the nuance of what gives it weight. An example of this would be if I were to say that ‘in all police and civilian interactions, there is an element of personal responsibility that needs to be exercised by civilians for how these interactions can go awry’, a strawmanning of this position could be ‘this claim blames the victim of police violence and is insensitive to the personal circumstances of the civilian that have led them to act as they have’. Rather than actually dealing with the substance of the initial proposition, what the person strawmanning is doing is inferring from what was not said, an intention that contravenes their ideological position. At no stage did the person putting forward the initial proposition say that the victim should be blamed, or fail to recognise the personal circumstances of a civilian that may have been harmed in a police interaction. Steelmanning, on the other hand, is when the person responding to the original claim acknowledges the substance of it, and even bolsters it by what they have to add to the discussion with their response. An example of this with the above scenario could be, ‘while the ultimate power in police/civilian interactions does rest with the officer, I agree that there are numerous things that are within the power of the civilian to do or not do that reduce the risk of the interaction escalating to violence or an arrest being made, for example, by them being honest and respectful in answering the officer’s questions’.
As you read both of these responses to the original claim made, how do they make you, as an independent observer, feel? I think that regardless of your ideological position on the issue of police/civilian interactions, most people would have a greater level of respect for the person who is steelmanning the original claim because they are demonstrating a genuine willingness to deal with the claim on its merits, and acknowledge whatever strengths it has, while also balancing their counterclaim with supplementary points that add weight to their own position. By comparison, it is hard not to pity the person who has to resort to strawmanning because what they are actually signalling by taking that road is that they don’t have the substance to either their argument, or critical thinking ability, to deal with what is actually being said without resorting to minimising behaviour that attempts to caricature the other person and the point they are making. To make matters worse for those who make it a habit of strawmanning others’ arguments is that when they are called out for engaging in that type of behaviour, they often become defensive and resort to ad hominem attacks in order to save face.
Understand here that the focus of steelmanning is a bit different from finding common ground at the outset of a debate. What it consists of instead is being able to give due recognition to the strengths of the argument that the other party puts forward, which in nearly every debate will be present if one cares to look beyond the narrow bounds of the position that they are advocating for. In the above example given, I don’t think that any reasonable person would deny that in police/civilian interactions, police officers have the ultimate power as members of this state apparatus to dictate how these interactions will resolve. But an equally valid truth is that how a civilian chooses to deal with the police officer in that interaction will go a long way to determining how the police officer either responds or reacts to their demonstrated behaviour. Two things, that appear to be in opposition for their validity, can both be true, and it is the person who can steelman rather than strawman their opponent’s position, who earns the credibility to have their more nuanced position listened to. The conditions of life are largely complex and multifaceted, and those who can wrestle with this tension while giving due recognition to alternate positions that speak to truth, will hold a gravitas that those who address contra-points in bad faith renounce themselves of.